after waiting for 5 hours within 2 days in Heathrow i think i have observed some interesting stuff and come out with some little thoughts..
1st day in Heathrow.. after 2 hour bus from bristol malborough station, i reached heathrow, this place looks a bit familiar coz i have been here once when i came back from m'sia in sept 2007, but yet a bit strange to me! well this time i was assigned a task, to pick up student from India and sent them back bristol safe and sound!
rite, i was waiting patiently after i knew that the plane was landed in heathow.. so i waited, waited and WAITED!!! after an hour i began to worried coz i scared i have missed them, so i paged them and i was told minimum i need to wait for 2 hours n max i need to wait for 4HOURS.. wat? well tat's okie dun mind waiting so long i din miss them. So in the 3 rd hour i started to feel a bit awkward, i dun think i will miss a bunch of India student hem~ but wat was happennin in the custom?! was the queue tat long? out of the blue i heard someone paging for student representative, okie give it a try perhaps they were looking for me! PHEW~ it was them, i managed to get them finally... phew phew phew~ if not i really dunno wat to do in the huge n bz airport!
okie~ wat had i been doin in this three hours? i started lookin at ppl, started observing their facial expression, even their luggages, n ppl waiting there as well! Airport is really an interesting place, u can see happy faces, the moment of touch, a touch of love etc well in summary u can see humanity...
First observation- a chap quite tall, bristish i suppose coz he is blond, carrying a big bag, w/o huge luggage, walking out from the custom, a gal and another chap waiting for him were yelling his name and rush towards him, the gal helped him with the huge bag, while the two guys bearhug each other, (at first i tot they might be...) but i was wrong, coz then i saw a lady and a man appeared to be his father and mother hugging together, so i assume they are a family, brother sister relationship..
I always tot only among Asian we have this big concept about family, but when i saw the father was hugging his son and his eyes turned red with tears drippn down, i noe again i was wrong! they have strong bond as well, i hardly saw them said anything to each other, they were only hugging and cuddling each other. And tat's such simple thing which makes u feel the touch of love, without the needs of exchanging any words. U can deeply feel they care for each other and love each other. Then they walked away together, i guess they will have a nice family dinner reunion follow up.
second observation, having said that i think chinese has a rooted concept as to family, i think chinese is the less expressive one, hardly any chinese there when they saw their family will express themselves that they have missed each others, they were all so shy juz nodded their head to each other and juz a swallow smile, nothing agressive. hem... i wonder this is really a good way where we act so humble? Coz even Indians are quite expressive, the younger will touch the elderly's leg to show respect, then hug together lotsa body languages u can notice but can hardly see this happen to chinese...
another sweet thing i saw, two gals i suppose in the age of 16, 17 they made a card, a big card and wrote DAD N MOM, WE LOVE U... waiting patiently for their dad n mom and keep putting up the card if there were anyone coming out.. and when they saw their parents same thing they hugged them kissed them on the cheek n i saw the gals crying... aww~ how sweet were they!
I guess sometimes we are too shy to tell our parent how much we care bout them, but with this lil action they will b able to feel it, but even this we are shy to do. But i was wondering if we dun tell and we don't make any active action will they noe? will they understand? prolly last time i will think well... tis should put in the heart and not on the mouth... but i think now i have changed my mindset, i think of coz i will put it in my heart, meanwhile i need to tell her as well... so tat she knows it... i think this is a much more effective way!
ohhh apart from being emotional, i was materialistic too gosh! erm!! when i saw some branded bags or luggages within my view line, i juz can't stop lookin at it.. i think it is time for me to wake up!!! stop being materialistic! one of the disadvantages coming to UK is definitely having more knowledge in bags.. aiks.. well.. there is always pros n cons hehe ^^
ohh ya nearly forget ( distracted by the bags thinggy) after this heathrow trip i learnt something i think, i must try my best to pick up my family, friends, lover in the airport coz it really do means a lot for them or prolly for us, i do think it is something very sweet!! aww so sweet ;p
i m always inspired by those colume writer or fantastic blogger writing about their thoughts and/or life experience. take some of some frez as examples, whenever i read their blog i got so amazed by how they express a particular thought or a relatively simple feeling, their choice of words are so powerful n expressive. I m so amazed because this is the thing i never know how to do. However, I do always think that words were the best invention in the world, the beauty of words, the beauty of communication and i think tat's wat makes us the so called ' the most intelligence' genus on earth.
Words it can be so vague but on the other hand so explicit. sometimes diff choice of words would twist the whole situation. I take it that u would have come across those ppl who u think is very irritating bcoz they never noe how to speak the right thing in the right time, they were so annoying that they always mess up the atmosphere by saying some nonsensical stuff, u might call them a pest, sth that u deserted so much. Nevertheless, u would also have come across ppl who are humorous, who speaks interestingly n comfortably, i m sure everyone would like to mix with these ppl, or m i wrong? doubted.
When it comes to man n woman sometimes communication become so essential, especially ppl always say, man are from mars n women from venus, two diff creature who are far apart from each other. No doubt communication would b essential but these two diff creature would have some selective hearing, they only listen to what they wanna listen but not they don't! am i wrong again? well~ explorable...
question arises now, if i were to be a writer, wat would my story be? or wat sort of material i would be looking at? some thoughts catch my mind.. prolly a girls in her twenties? but i was no longer a gal in her fabulous 21 iishh.. also not a gal in her twisting 25, not yet a gal in 29 turnin into 30 okie~ so not really interetin in this.. how about a poor gal living her life in UK? aiks but i dun think i spend as wise as housewife so forget about it hem~ or something sounds like split personality, nerdy vs crazy gal, ha! quite an interesting one, or a romantic cinderella/snow white pejorative storyline in real life? huh.. i think i would definitely write sth non-connected to my current life, perhaps then i m given a chance to explore for my second life?
it's a nite end with 'i'll be there
Everytime when i'm listening to my favourite song in such a serene nite,
i sincerely feel that this is the life that i m looking for...
it's tat simple, i can feel my felicity!
it's like eating ur favourite dessert which u have been craving for a long time...
24 hours a day, i think this might be the most contented moment i have..
prolly i can't say it is the happiest moment,
coz it is not a feeling of happiness
but more like a feeling of being contented, satisfied, appreciating n of coz calmest moment..
everytime when i feel sleepy in this hour,
i will be so reluctant to go to bed coz i wanna seize this very precious moment,
i dun wanna waste it by going to bed early...
i feel like i owned the nite
so comfortable and so easeful...
watelse can i be craving for for my life?
contented that i m given a pair of ears to listening to all my favourite musics, sounds etc.
given a pair of eyes to look into the sky n stars n daydream in de nitez
given a mouth to eat the tastiest dessert/ food in the world
given a healthy life to spend my night in such a way!!!
i truly considered myself lucky enuf to live my life'....
just call my name n i'll b there.. aww... too sleepy where i need to end my nitez soon....
byebye my reverie island...